Tribute to Joey (thoughtfully made by David Baker from SBFreaks)
JOEY LOTT - The Light of my Life 2/15/81 - 11/1/02
Joey was born at 6:40 a.m. on February 15, 1981 at the Marine Corps military base hospital
in 29 Palms, CA. He was the most beautiful baby boy I had ever seen. I had always wanted a boy for
my first child and my dream came true on that wonderful day. The joy that he gave me throughout his short life
is one that I will treasure for eternity.
He had an amazing artistic talent, a love for animals, an undying loyalty to family
and friends, and a heart filled with kindness and compassion. Despite some sadness in his life, he still had an overpowering
zest for life. In the last years of his life, his passion was motorcycles, although he had been riding since he was 5. After
he got his first Yamaha (a blue R6), most of his time was spent either riding it or fixing it. When
he wasn't doing that, he was working at the motorcycle shop in Concord, CA. When I took my kids to Hawaii in August
of 2002, Joey's bike (then a silver R1 - his pride and joy) was in the shop getting fixed. He called the shop EVERY
SINGLE DAY to check on the progress and to make sure it would be finished when he returned home. Not being able to ride
for that week drove him crazy.
I had 2 1/2 more months with him after our vacation, and on the morning of Nov 1st,
2002, he left for work like he did every other day. Never, in my wildest imagination, would I have known that it would
be the last time I'd get to hug my son goodbye. I received the call at 9:23 that morning, telling me that there had
been an accident. Someone in a van had cut him off on the freeway, about 1/2 mile from where he worked. He hit
the back of the van and was thrown from his bike into a lamp post. I knew, at that time, that it was serious, and I
headed immediately to the hospital. I was shaking, crying, and in shock because it was the most unexplainable
feeling of fear that I had ever experienced. When I arrived at the hospital, there were about 20 of Joey's friends already
there. The news had spread so quickly and I was amazed at the outpouring of support, compassion, and sadness.
I ran into the emergency room, screaming that I wanted to see my son. They took me into another room and wouldn't let
me in to see him. He was already gone by then and I know they did this for my own protection, but all I wanted was to
be with Joey. They finally confirmed that he didn't make it and allowed me to go in and see him. He had very few
scratches on him and he just looked like he was sleeping. All his injuries were internal. His heart had ruptured
on impact. The hospital staff was amazing. They not only allowed me to stay with my son as long as I needed, but
they also allowed the rest of my family and all of Joey's friends to come in and say their goodbyes. It was the most
difficult day of my life and one that I will never forget.
Joey left a legacy that I pray will continue even long after I'm gone.
One Sweet Day We'll Be Together Again
We do not need a special day to bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake, we know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache as we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness and secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you, no one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you, your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly; in death we love you still.
There will always be a heartache, and often a silent tear.
But always a precious memory of the days when you were here.
If tears would make a staircase, and heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven and bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts; and there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives, until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now, and nothing seems the same,
But as we're called on one by one, the chain will link again
~Author Unknown~
Excerpt from Contra Costa Sun Article
*~* Race in Peace Joey Lott *~*
Trading his four wheeled cars for
two wheeled motorcycles catapulted Joey Lott into the risky, yet adventurous, lifestyle characterized by riding that he loved
so much. For most people, the idea of doing something new or having a new toy generates initial enthusiasm that
subdues over time into a leisurely hobby. For Joey, that enthusiasm kept growing to no end, and motorcycles became his life,
Robert Walia, friend, said. The speed, the rush of the wind and the adrenaline cursing through a persons veins,
as he cruises the highway, are enticing trademarks of owning a motorcycle. There is something so free about
riding a motorcycle. You just get it in your blood, and you can't really explain it to people. You get on that thing and you
own the world, the road, the sky. It clears your head and sets you free. I guess it would be similar to how people would explain
flying, Remy Rodriguez, friend, said. Lott was no different: even before he bought his first bike, he had the
need for speed and the need to live life as carefree and on the edge as possible. Melissa MacLeod, a neighbor
of Lott, saw him many times on his bike, coming down the street, and she cannot remember him any other way. Joey
seemed to have gas and adrenaline in his veins: he loved to live life up, and live it fast, MacLeod said. For
Rodriguez, friendship with Lott grew out of their shared love for the road, for motorcycles, and for something that can never
be explained but just was. An unspoken yet always understood connection. That wordless connection with Joey was
at its height on the road. I used to turn my head to find my friend, when I saw or did something that warranted a good laugh.
I knew I would always find his smiling eyes beaming through the visor. I could almost hear his laugh. To have all that, mixed
with the sound of the engine and the road, was the most peaceful, content place I have ever known. On those rides I would
wish for nothing more from life except for that day to go on forever, Rodriguez said. Everyone knows, though,
that days will never be forever and yes, even the good times must come to an end. Unfortunately, on the morning
of November 1, 2002, that harsh reality was brought home when Lott, doing what he loved most, was killed riding his bike to
work. All of those who Lott had encountered in his short, yet fulfilling, life paid their respects by creating
a makeshift memorial at his accident site, and by attending his funeral. Over 400 friends, acquaintances, family members and
outsiders paid their respect to the fallen rider, known for his incredible zest for life and his adventurous spirit. Joey,
as he appeared to me, was a loner with some close friends and his family. I did not look around the chapel until the service
started, and I had expected to see about 30 people. What I saw was a room full of family and friends sitting, standing in
the back, and standing in the aisles all the way out the front. This made me realize how special he was and how special his
friends were to him, Sheldon Nankin, Lott's grandfather, said. Lott's uncle, Gary Nankin, summed up the feeling
of love and friendship that his family felt about this extreme outpouring of mourners for his nephew. "I was equally
struck by the love that I observed from so many people that he was close to, and there were more than most humans will have
in a lifetime. I know Joey had an equal passion for the people that he touched, and that was a great part of the high that
he experienced. It was not just Joey the rider who drew many hundreds of passionate friends to
celebrate his short, but packed life. It was Joey the friend they loved".
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